Are you going to the right place hirovard? You need to double click on the Deluge icon on your desktop, and the Warband launcher pops up. Go to configure (below 'Play Mount&Blade'), then choose the 'Advanced' tab at the right, and then tick the 'Enable Edit mode' box. Then click ok at the bottom of the launcher and you will be back at the first page, where you click on 'Play Mount&Blade' and the mod loads. That should be it. If you are indeed already going to the right place, what goes wrong at which point?