im about 200 days in and things have congealed into all-out peace...the only war that's happened in the last 50-60 days have been the North, Pentos and Lys/Tyrosh being at war with everyone else.
in the early stage the diplomacy events were happening much too fast, it would cycle from alliance to war and back to peace before I'd have time to actually find and attack the enemy
but once dragonstone was defeated, everyone settled for their current holdings
so there definitely needs to have some tweaking done to the diplomacy/relations..im thinking this might be related to the size of the map vs the number of lords.
beyond that, the quality of the mod is great, i've had zero crashes and i've only encountered one bug so far:
one of the Reach lords, i believe it's a female but her face is covered in chainmail..maybe brienne? (she might have started out in renly's faction but defected to the reach by now in m game)
anywho...her name is some other string, looks like an update from a lord defecting...the name keeps appearing as "Lord Defects june16 1257, has gone over to..." (used a random date)