I know that Lord's in the original Warband have love interest's, but what if your companions (or a really favourable Lord) had a secret love interest. And perhaps it triggers a quest for assitance to have her hand in marrige.
Companion: One of your companions request's entry into your tent, and when you ask what he wants, he says: "M'Lord, I have a confession. I've had an interest in Lady X and have been thinking of only her since I first laid eyes on her! I know that she may not adore me as much as I, but I must have her. So I ask, will you aid me?"
Answer 1: "Hahaha! that's your confession? Why didn't you tell me sooner? Let's go find us that Lady! (MAJOR relation bonus. Morale bonus. Honour bonus. Possibly lower a Lord's relation because he had an open attraction to her.)
Answer 2: "Why would she want a meager cannon-fodder as a husband? You better forget about her soon, beacuse i'm sure steel can make you forget!" (Relation lowered. Slightly lowered morale. Honour lowered.)
Answer 3: "Well well well, so you got a tiny crush? Well I gotta say you got good taste in women. Come to think of it, I always have my own 'secret love interest' of her myself. I think I might pay her a visit." (MAJOR relation penalty. Party Morale stays the same. MAJOR honour penalty.)
Answer 4: "Guys guess what I just heard!" ( Same as 3 but MAJOR party morale increase)
Affectionate Lord(maybe?): your good friend Lord X has come to your army alone, and when your men ask him what he needs and eagerly ask if he needs any assitance, and he just requests to see you. when he is in the privacy of your tent he says: "I hate to tell you this, but you're the only one I can turn to. I've got a romantic interest with a certain Lady, Lady X. I come to you for assitance for her hand."
Answer 1: "...Well what are you standing there for? We got a wedding to plan!" (MAJOR relation bonus. Party morale bonus. MAJOR honour bonus.)
Answer 2: " Jesus! For a second I thought you were gonna ask me somthing I give a s*it about!" (MAJOR relation penalty and possible duel. Party morale bonus from joke. Honour penalty.)
And the other answers are pretty much the same, catch my drift? I'm not sure if this could be coded but I thought it might be usefull to get my rough editable idea out there. YAY!