I know this ones kinda petty, but I think that the ash'amen should be stronger.... they should be able to take more damage than the Aes Sedai (this may sound sexist) because they're men. They've been purposefully trained so that they can fight so thats another reason i guess, another thing like the Ash'amen shouldn't be able to heal as often or at all because most haven't been taught how to heal very well, theres only one or two that have a large amount of knowledge in the healing area. While Aes Sedai should be more shielding and healing and slowing based because generally they wern't involved in conflicts. I have no idea if this can be coded in but it would be cool.
Good comments...
I'm not sure if you've noticed, but Aes Sedai use different weaves based on their Ajah. I have seven (eight counting black) different power weapons for them. So, Yellows will mostly heal, Greens mostly fight, Reds mostly shield, etc. Also, all the lower class channelers (novices, soldiers, apprentices)have a chance that their weaves will fail. (Ie the little puff of blue mist that appears in front of them from time to time. Ashaman can be made stronger by changing their level, or the amount of armor their coats have, or by changing their Ironflesh level. I'll look into it. But, I left all channelers sort of unarmored so any solid normal weapon blow will kill them. Otherwise it would be almost impossible to play as a non-channeler. Also, I think that Seeker is used by Asha'man but not Aes Sedai. (I'd have to double check) Aes Sedai also do a lot of Unraveling. Aes Sedai are definitely better support channelers than Asha'man, but aren't quite as good at offensive fighting. (Excluding Greens - plus they usually bring 2 to 3 warders with them) Wise Ones are somewhere in the middle. Dreadlords and damane are mostly offensive channelers. Channeling lords/ladies do a little of everything. But the bad guys get compulsion.
I might have to take another look at the balancing one of these days.
I guess currently, Ashaman are stronger because they have leather armor, where as the Aes Sedai have dresses. One guy with a sword can take out a group of novices like nothing. (But shame on you if you kill a bunch of untrained girls...

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