Is there a (hacky) way to divorce my spouse?

[Rabblerouser]

I was young and in love  and rushed things too quickly!

Now I find that Count Meltor has defected to the cursed desert-lurkers! If I'm to hold any land, I can't be espoused to a deserter, can't I?!


So I'm looking for a way to HACK THE WORLD and make it so as I'd never married the man.
I tried someone else's idea, to enable cheats, type cheatmenu, camp, then click some magical thing to divorce, but there was no divorce button.

 

[Lord Tim]

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