After doing a deeper research before, I notice this problem occurs with a good size of the community... or were part of the community. The truth is after doing more complex research is that no one really knows the exact problem. However, even more sadely, staff and members have ignored the issue for the most part. Most of these topics have little to no help from any staff or member. There is a solution, although, due to the fact no one is really researching enough, the solution is lost.
I myself, with little knowledge I know of the computer, have tweaked with files and such. No solution. I will continue to tweak with them.
What really needs to happen is a few staff and other members from the community need to start working to find solutions. Compared to other support sites, this one is pretty lacking. I do know this, most likely I will never buy another Mount and Blade game unless it has a good reception for it's single player. I have never ever had such a problem with multiplayer. Thats extremely sad due to the fact there are few if any games that are like Mount and Blade.
Patch after patch goes by, no solution. I do want to thank the people who have in fact tried to help with others. It is very well appreciated. Until a solution is sought, as one person already stated, "It looks like the people with this problem is doomed to oblivion."
Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining or bashing. I'm just saying, something needs to be done.