Here is a petty request.
When I allow a lord to be ransomed, I want all of the relations I lost with him by capturing him to be restored. It really sucks that if you take them captive your country gets allmost none of the lords that are available when country is defeated.
Hehehe, I was just imagining this happening in the medieval ages.
You: "So, uh, I'm ransoming you off as a slave, and your faction has agreed to pay me for your life, so, as I've treated like dirt and as a slave and prisoner, we're cool now?"
Lord: "Yeah, we cool."
Lol, imagining that situation made me laugh a bit
