Do you think he is lying about this?Jhessail said:- I feel more comfortable talking to people and looking them in the eye (especially women), I have a firmer voice and sound more sure of myself.
- I walk around with my head held up high and my back straight, I smile at people and I’m never afraid of meeting strangers.
- I am more comfortable than before with speaking in front of crowds and just being in a crowd in general.
- I am more motivated to get things done, I do the things I need to do as soon as I can and I don’t long for just staying home and playing video games.
- I don’t jump to conclusions when somebody looks at me funny or when I notice someone disliking me. You can’t be popular with everyone.
- I don’t feel ashamed thinking about women in a sexual way and I can ask someone I like out for a coffee or beer (almost) without getting nervous.
Are you seriously claiming that these changes happened because you stopped watching porn?
I absolutely believe that this worked in his case because he decided to kick his porn addiction. Not because watching porn does the opposite of what he listed, but more so guilt about his addiction as well as the skewed views on sexuality that porn can give a person have inhibited him from being a cool dude
Seems like more so a self-confidence problem related to guilt than much else. But that hardly changes the equation, and does not at all affect the results. Good on you for addressing your personal demons Urgrevling. If things ever get dire just go somewhere with no internet.
That being said, I totally disagree with the nofap thing. Sometimes a challenging mental or moral problem is best solved after a nice wank. I can't believe any real benefits ("superpowers") outside of an increased libido, unless they are wrought from issues of self-confidence, as I believe is this case. Even though sex drive will be increased and perhaps this will make people more outgoing and therefore most likely more likely to find someone to do the horizontal mambo with... Well, if you haven't jerked off in 30 days you probably won't be equated to a marathon runner. But as long as you're ok with lasting 5 seconds the first go, all the power to you and may your second run be much more impressive!